Your friends and family know you, trust you and want you to succeed. For these reasons, F&F is usually the easiest place to go looking for money. But the ease could come with risks far greater than those associated with borrowing from strangers.
Most business owners will hit up F&F at the very early stages of the business, when there’s little to no plan for the business. The ask is essentially “please invest your money and be very patient while I try to make this work.” It can lead to some very uncomfortable dinner-table conversations if your F&F lenders start to become impatient.
Secondly, is the issue of participation. It’s easier to manage a stranger’s need to get involved than a friend’s or relative’s especially if you see them a lot, and even more so if they feel they have ideas or thoughts to contribute.
Finally, there is the possibility of insolvency. If you lose a stranger’s money, you get on with your life. If you lose your aunt’s money, those uncomfortable family dinners will become unbearable really fast.